Many partners find the diagnosis and treatment of breast cancer distressing but are reluctant to seek help for themselves because they feel they need to be ‘strong’.
Partners can experience higher levels of stress than the person diagnosed with cancer. They also have different information needs. Everyone is different and will have his or her own way of coping.
It’s important that women and their partners are open with each other about how they are feeling. Going to appointments together can provide valuable support and can give partners the opportunity to ask questions.
Some partners choose to make a separate appointment with their doctor or another member of the team to discuss how they are feeling.
Some couples choose to see a counsellor or other trained professional together.
Information for men whose partners have been diagnosed with breast cancer
Drawing on interviews with men who have faced the same crisis, this section of the website is designed to help men understand what’s happening to the woman they love. It suggests what men can do to help the woman they love – and themselves – as they travel the cancer journey. Most of the issues covered in this section are relevant to partners, family and friends of all cancer sufferers. This section of the website was edited by men for men. Find out more.